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The Link Between Perfectionism and Low Self-Esteem
Perfectionism is often praised in our culture. It’s dressed up as ambition, high standards, or a strong work ethic. But beneath that...

Fika Mental Health
Jun 213 min read


How to Be Mentally Strong Without Ignoring Your Feelings
When we think of “mental strength,” we often picture someone who’s stoic, unshaken, and unfazed by pain. But here’s the truth: real...

Fika Mental Health
Jun 193 min read


How to Tell If You Have an Anxious or Avoidant Attachment
Ever feel like you’re too much in relationships—or maybe not enough? Maybe you crave closeness, but also fear getting hurt. Or maybe you...

Fika Mental Health
Jun 173 min read


The Science of Trauma Healing: What Actually Works
Trauma changes the brain and body, but healing is absolutely possible. If you’ve ever felt stuck, reactive, or like you’re “overreacting”...

Fika Mental Health
Jun 133 min read


What Is ‘Somatic Anxiety’ and How Do You Regulate It?
Have you ever felt anxious, but couldn’t quite name why? Maybe your chest was tight, your stomach churned, or your jaw tensed—long before...

Fika Mental Health
Jun 113 min read


What is Psychological Safety at Work?
Let’s be real: it doesn’t matter how many free lunches, staff appreciation days, or wellness initiatives a workplace rolls out—if people...

Fika Mental Health
Jun 103 min read


Why Healing Isn’t a Straight Line (And What to Expect Instead)
When you start healing—whether from trauma, burnout, grief, or emotional wounds—it’s tempting to imagine progress as a steady upward...

Fika Mental Health
Jun 82 min read


How to Get Unstuck in Life When You Have No Idea What’s Next
You’ve checked all the boxes. Or maybe you haven’t. Either way, you’re standing still, unsure of what comes next, and unsure how to even...

Fika Mental Health
Jun 62 min read


Signs You Have an Unhealthy Relationship with Money (And How to Fix It)
You might not even realize it, but your relationship with money has a voice. It whispers things like: “You should feel guilty for...

Fika Mental Health
Jun 43 min read


How to Communicate Your Needs Without Fear
You’ve been holding back. You don’t want to come off as needy, dramatic, or “too much.” So instead of expressing what you really want or...

Fika Mental Health
Jun 23 min read


Breaking Free from the Need to Be ‘Productive’ 24/7
If you’ve ever felt guilty for taking a nap, watching Netflix, or simply doing nothing , you’re not alone. Many of us have internalized a...

Fika Mental Health
May 313 min read


Why Your Nervous System Won’t Let You Relax & How to Fix It
You’ve finally sat down to rest. There’s nothing urgent on your plate. You should feel relaxed, but your chest is tight, your jaw is...

Fika Mental Health
May 292 min read


What Is a Shadow Self And Why Ignoring It Makes Anxiety Worse?
Have you ever caught yourself reacting more strongly than you “should” to something small—like someone cancelling plans or giving you...

Fika Mental Health
May 283 min read


Why You Feel Stuck in Life (And How to Move Forward)
You know that feeling—you’re going through the motions, doing “all the right things,” but something’s off. You’re unmotivated....

Fika Mental Health
May 283 min read


The Power of Self-Compassion: How to Be Kinder to Yourself
Being Hard on Yourself Isn’t Helping You push yourself. You hold yourself to high standards. You replay mistakes and call it “being...

Fika Mental Health
May 253 min read


How to Manage Work Anxiety Without Burning Out
Work Anxiety Is Real—and You’re Not Weak for Feeling It Whether it's the pressure to perform, the endless Slack notifications, or the...

Fika Mental Health
May 233 min read


The Pivot Year by Brianna Wiest: A Therapist’s Take on Finding Your Turning Point
What if one year could change the way we see ourselves, the way we show up in our relationships, and the way we move through the world? ...

Fika Mental Health
May 222 min read


Why You’re Addicted to Busyness (And How to Slow Down)
In a culture that glorifies hustle and idolizes productivity, doing less can feel like failure. Many of us are so used to being busy that...

Fika Mental Health
May 192 min read


Why Making Friends as an Adult Is So Hard (And What to Do About It)
Making friends as a kid felt almost effortless—one minute you were on the same swing set, the next you were inseparable. But as an adult?...

Fika Mental Health
May 162 min read


The Link Between Trauma & Overthinking (And How to Break Free)
Why Trauma Makes You Overthink Everything If you’ve ever replayed a conversation a hundred times in your head or struggled to make even...

Fika Mental Health
May 142 min read
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